Issue #151 I stopped asking ‘how’ and started asking ‘why
In my 20s, 30s and even 40s, health was often about the ‘How’ – how to run faster, how to look a certain way, how to grab some personal space or how to fit a workout into a chaotic schedule of motherhood, family and work. But as I stepped into my 50s and 60s, the conversation shifted. Suddenly, it was not just about the how; it was about the ‘Why’. I see it every day at Be Well. The members who thrive have anchored their health to a purpose that goes deeper than a New Year’s resolution or a quick fix. Why your ‘Why’ matters for your health and longevity The window for radical life extension is still wide open in our 40s and 50s! According to Stanford Medicine (2026), we lose about 10% of muscle strength each decade after 50. Their latest research into gerozymes – enzymes that regulate muscle aging- suggests that while science is catching up, the best ‘medicine’ remains consistent, purposeful movement to protect your metabolic independence. Meta-analysis of 2 million people published by UNSW Sydney in 2025, demonstrated that managing five key health markers (blood pressure, cholesterol, BMI, smoking status, and blood sugar) by age 50 adds an average of 14.5 years of life for women and 11.8 years for men. Precision, not pressure We are moving away from one-size-fits-all fitness. Now, it’s about intelligence over intensity. Why now? Because we finally have the tools to personalize health without the burnout. No more stressful biohacking, chasing complex metrics, high-tech tracking and self ‘surveillance’. The new field of Neurowellness shifts the goal from peak performance to listening to our bodies and nervous system regulation, rather than hitting data points alone. Purpose is a biological shield A landmark 2025 study from UC Davis found that individuals with a strong sense of purpose have a 28% lower risk of developing cognitive impairment and dementia. Purpose acts as a buffer, helping the brain stay resilient even against genetic risks. A study led by Dr. Aliza Wingo followed 13,000 adults over 15 years. They found that those with a high sense of purpose (their ‘Why’) had a 28% lower risk of developing cognitive impairment. Crucially, the research showed that purpose actually builds cognitive reserve, allowing the brain to remain resilient even in the presence of genetic markers for Alzheimer’s. Community is the new super nutrient UNSW Sydney also released another breakthrough study last year showing that strong social bonds slow aging at a cellular level. Loneliness isn’t just a feeling; in 2026, it’s recognised as a primary driver of biological aging and is as hard on the heart as smoking. Choosing a place like Be Well in Hawthorn isn’t just about the equipment; it’s about having a restorative sanctuary, about being known and supported by a team, your neighbours and friends. Places like Be Well are no longer just gyms; they are hubs for nervous system safety. Being part of a genuine community provides the social super nutrient that a solo home workout simply cannot replicate. How to Find Your ‘Why’ If ‘getting fit’ feels too vague, try these strategies to narrow your focus 1. The ‘5 Whys’ technique Ask yourself a health goal, then ask ‘Why?’ five times to get to the root. Goal: I want to improve my mobility. * Why? To reduce back pain. * Why? To stay active on weekends. * Why? To go hiking with my kids. * Why? To be the fun grandparent who isn’t stuck on the sidelines. * The Real Why>: Legacy and connection. 2. Prioritise the micro Science shows that small, consistent movements, what researchers call ‘habit friction reduction’, are more effective than occasional hour long grinds. Find a ‘Why’ that makes a 10 minute walk at lunchtime feel like a treat, not a chore. In 2026, I have turned all my Friday meetings into phone calls so I can walk and talk. It all adds up! 3. Come to a Tomorrow Party, held regularly at Be Well, where you can explore your Why and Purpose in a supportive community (next one coming up on Thursday 19 February!) Your Next Step Whether it’s staying sharp for your career, being present for your family or simply feeling at home in your body again, there has never been a better time to start or just keep going. Your ‘Why’ is the engine; we are your fuel. See you again at Be Well soon! Navigate to more articles! PrevPreviousIssue #150 Beyond Willpower: How to stay motivated for life Be Well is the first-of-its- kind urban health, wellness and lifestyle club in Melbourne, Australia. Informed by the science of longevity, Be Well nurtures the relationship you have with yourself and others, to optimise your lifestyle, and live your longest, best life.
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