Today, I felt an overwhelming wave of gratitude for my body, heart and mind. Its resilience as a ‘whole’ system is phenomenal, given what I, and life, have thrown at it! This prompted me to reflect on the invisible pressures that impact us in unknown ways, all day, everyday. It’s unbelievable how much our minds, hearts and bodies put up with, with us barely noticing it. The Hidden Toxic Load We Carry In the pre-industrial era, the few chemicals used were derived from natural sources, such as soap from animal fat, herbal tinctures, and basic metallurgy. Then the post-1920s Chemical Boom arrived, resulting in over 350,000 synthetic chemicals registered today for commercial use globally, touching nearly every aspect of daily life. Over an 80 year lifespan, women experience about 4.9 million exposures to chemicals, while for men about 2.5 million exposures. Its never been more neccessary to make concious consumer choices, to reduce the toxic load of chemicals on our bodies. Our 35,000 Daily Decisions The average knowledge worker gets 117 emails a day and 153 Teams messages each weekday (yes, you read that right). Employees are interrupted every 2 minutes by a ping, notification or meeting. And yet, despite all this noise we still manage to have around 6,200 thought worms and make 35,000 decisions each day, even if many of them small and automatic, such as what to eat, wear, or say. Amazingly, we have about 10 to 20 creative or novel ideas each day, which sums to around 300,000 ideas over a lifetime. Where did they all go?! Our Fragile Resilent Hearts The average person falls in love 2 to 5 times in a lifetime—some deeply, some fleetingly. Most of us endure at least five real heartbreaks: the end of a friendship, the death of a loved one, betrayal, estrangement, or the quiet grief of losing a dream or sense of self. We recalibrate, heal, and mend—again and again. Studies suggest we experience 20 to 50 emotional micro-shifts a day—joy, sadness, surprise, tenderness. That’s 7,000 to 18,000 shifts a year. Over a lifetime? Nearly half a million. As we age, our emotional landscape deepens. We gain compassion, wisdom, and acceptance. The intensity softens, replaced by richer, more complex feelings: bittersweetness, nostalgia, awe. Reflecting on this blew my sense of gratitude wide open. We are emotional ecosystems, fragile, resilient, and beautifully alive. The Core Business of Being Well Looking after our body, mind and heart is the core business of our lives. Our first responsibility. The sick person only has one wish, as the saying goes, whereas a healthy person has a thousand wishes. So I was thrilled that, already, over 50 Newsletter Subscribers and Be Well Members have engaged with Thrive, led by Dr Gillian Singleton from In2Health. This a free and unique opportunity to discover your personalised health and wellbeing scores, and gain bespoke insights on what steps will most improve your health, now and into the future. Take a few minutes now, and get your free Health Check & Dashboard, as a first step towards a healthier you. It’s the simplest, smartest first step towards a healthier, more empowered you. Be Well, Live Well As you spring forward into the months ahead, take a moment to thank your miraculous body, mind and heart for all the visible and invisible work they do, every single day. At Be Well, every offering – from physio assessments to resistance training, rehab, Pilates, yoga, stretch, saunas, Airpod, compression and more – is carefully curated to support your body, recovery and vitality. We’re here to help you move better, feel stronger, and live with more ease. I look forward to seeing you at Be Well soon. Navigate to more articles! PrevPreviousThe Spirit is Willing… Be Well is the first-of-its- kind urban health, wellness and lifestyle club in Melbourne, Australia. Informed by the science of longevity, Be Well nurtures the relationship you have with yourself and others, to optimise your lifestyle, and live your longest, best life.