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As the season shifts and the days grow longer, some of us are preparing for traditions of reflection, from the rituals of Passover and Easter to the upcoming cycles of Spring.  But regardless of your personal heritage or beliefs, this time of year offers a universal invitation: the opportunity for a ‘grace period’. I recently saw the award winning film La Grazia (The Grace), a stunningly cinematic and captivating Italian film. In the movie, grace isn’t a religious handout; it is a raw, human moment of being seen, accepted and given a second chance.  The movie has sparked conversations by moving the concept of grace into the high-stakes world of ethics and law. The story follows a fictional Italian President grappling with petitions for pardons, moments where the rigid letter of the law meets the messy reality of human regret and redemption. At Be Well, we believe ‘La Grazia’ isn’t just a cinematic theme; it is a vital pillar of human health. The biology of forgiveness In the film, characters carry the heavy burden of past actions, illustrating how regret and anger can become a form of emotional debt. Science tells us that this debt has a physical cost. When we harbor chronic anger or self-reproach, our bodies remain in a state of fight or flight. Research from Johns Hopkins Medicine shows that chronic anger keeps the body flooded with cortisol, which can increase the risk of heart disease and diabetes. Practicing grace, essentially ‘pardoning’ yourself or others, lowers blood pressure and reduces levels of IL-6, a key marker of systemic inflammation. By choosing grace over resentment, you are quite literally giving your heart a rest. Health beyond the rules We often approach wellness like a legal code: Did I hit my steps? Did I eat the right macros? When we fail, we feel guilty, as if we’ve broken a law. But true wellbeing requires the same nuance seen in La Grazia. Psychological studies on Redemptive Narratives suggest that people who view their failures not as permanent stains, but as chapters leading to growth, have significantly higher levels of mental resilience.  When we practice ‘La Grazia’, giving ourselves the grace to be imperfect, to rest or to start over, we switch our nervous systems into a state of rest and digest. Grace as a community safety net The film reminds us that grace is a collective effort. In our diverse Be Well community, spanning all faiths and philosophies, grace is the social lubricant that binds us together. When we extend unearned kindness to others, our brains release oxytocin, often called the bonding hormone. This counteracts stress and builds the social cohesion that the Harvard Study of Adult Development has identified as the Number 1 predictor of long-term health and longevity. A season of universal renewal Whether you are observing a holiday this month or simply enjoying the turn of season, consider how you can integrate a little more La Grazia into your life.   Liberation doesn’t have to be a grand historical event. It can be the simple, evidence-based act of letting go. Be Well. Be Gracious. Be You. Jan   www.bewell.com.auLifelong health, made simple Navigate to more articles! PrevPreviousIssue #158 Creatine is like glasses for my brain Be Well is the first-of-its- kind urban health, wellness and lifestyle club in Melbourne, Australia.  Informed by the science of longevity, Be Well nurtures the relationship you have with yourself and others, to optimise your lifestyle, and live your longest, best life.

The biggest difference I noticed when I started taking creatine a few years ago was my sharper brain. It was like putting glasses on when you’ve needed them for a while but not realised. Everything becomes crystal clear! I went off creatine for a few weeks last month just to see the difference and my brain felt sluggish and slow immediately. So I decided to go back in for a deep dive to see where the research is at in 2026. Why Creatine  For me staying younger longer isn’t just about looking good, it’s about cognitive agility, bone strength and metabolic resilience.  Here’s at least four reasons creatine is becoming the most researched longevity supplement of the decade!  Brain health The most exciting shift in recent research isn’t about muscles, it’s about the mind. Your brain is an energy hog, consuming roughly 20% of your body’s total calories. Recent clinical trials have shown that creatine acts as a neuro-protective buffer. For those of us juggling demanding careers, family logistics and the occasional bout of poor sleep, creatine helps maintain ATP (your cell’s energy currency) in the prefrontal cortex. The evidence? 2025 systematic reviews indicate that adults over 45 saw marked improvements in processing speed and short-term memory when supplementing. If you’ve ever walked into a room and forgotten why you’re there, creatine might be the upgrade you need.  Body We naturally lose 3-8% of our muscle mass every decade after 30, a process called sarcopenia. This isn’t just about aesthetics; muscle is your metabolic armor. It regulates your blood sugar and protects your joints. New 2026 data confirms that creatine, even with light resistance training (like yoga or brisk walking), significantly improves functional strength. It helps you stay springy and capable.   Sleep A 2025 study found that while creatine doesn’t make you sleep longer, it improves subjective sleep quality and cognitive performance following a night of poor sleep. Why? Creatine acts as a temporal energy buffer. When the brain is sleep-deprived, it depletes ATP rapidly; creatine steps in to top off those stores, meaning you feel less wrecked the next morning.  Women’s health One of the most profound breakthroughs in the last year is the focus on women’s health. As estrogen levels fluctuate and eventually drop, our internal ability to produce creatine also dips. This can contribute to the fatigue and mood swings often associated with perimenopause.  Supplementing with creatine is now being hailed by specialists as a foundational tool to help stabilize mood and maintain lean tissue during hormonal shifts. Powering up  Creatine is an evidence-backed, safe and affordable way to ensure your body and mind have the fuel they need to thrive in your best years yet. Here’s to staying younger, longer, healthier! See you again at Be Well soon Jan  PS VIP health note: While creatine is one of the most thoroughly researched supplements available, it is not a one size fits all solution. If you have a history of kidney disease, are currently taking nephrotoxic medications or manage a condition like bipolar disorder, consult your Doctor first. www.bewell.com.auLifelong health, made simple Navigate to more articles! PrevPreviousIssue #157 Why 2yr-olds laugh 150x per day, and we don’t.  Be Well is the first-of-its- kind urban health, wellness and lifestyle club in Melbourne, Australia.  Informed by the science of longevity, Be Well nurtures the relationship you have with yourself and others, to optimise your lifestyle, and live your longest, best life.

Happy International Happiness Day! Our 2 year-old granddaughter laughs a lot. As do most 2 year-olds, around 100 – 150 times per day. By the time we get to 15 years of age we have laugh around 30 – 50 times a day,  reducing to 10-20 times a day in our 50s. As we age, we don’t necessarily lose our sense of humor; we lose our playfulness. For a 2 year-old, the world is a series of surprising accidents. For a 50 year old, the world is a series of expected routines.  It’s not just about the laughs; there are profound health and wellness benefits to be gained from more joy in our lives! Recent 2026 longitudinal studies have revealed that happiness acts as a buffer.against physical decline. Research from the Unicamp Journal shows that older adults who experience frequent joy yeilds a 60% lower risk of mortality compared to their less cheerful peers. Even when chronic conditions are present, happy individuals live, on average, a full year longer. Why? It’s all in the chemistry. When you’re happy, your brain reduces cortisol (the stress hormone) and floods your system with endorphins and serotonin. This doesn’t just feel good; it: Lowers blood pressure and heart rate. Boosts the immune system, making you more resilient to viruses. Reduces pain perception, acting as a natural analgesic. The 2026 World Happiness Report has placed a massive spotlight on Social Connection. We now know that chronic loneliness is as damaging to your health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day. But here’s the twist: connection doesn’t always have to be deep or heavy. Science now points to the power of micro-joys, those tiny, fleeting interactions with strangers or the weak ties in your life (like the barista who knows your order). These small sparks of belonging are enough to tell your nervous system that you are safe & you belong. Boosting Your Joy  Smile, even when you don’t feel like itThis can trick your brain into releasing happy hormones. Many days I literally smile at everyone I see walking down the street, in the shops, anywhere. Try it! It’s such fun!  Play through conflictGet out the old boardgames at home and lower the stakes of daily family stressors. Set up that gigantic jigsaw that takes a week to do on family holidays and let people come and go to the table to help and have a chat. Smell joyOur nose can remember over 50,000 scents. To instantly shift your mood, pick a specific happy scent (like fresh eucalyptus or citrus) and wear it during your favorite fitness or yoga class. Eventually, just the scent will trigger a fitness high. Adopt a weekly digital sabbathThis year’s Happiness Day theme focuses on Caring and Sharing online. Whichever 1 in 7 days is your ‘sabbath’, instead of scrolling news etc, try sending three ‘gratitude’ voice notes to friends. The verdict Happiness is a practice, not a destination.  And, as we all already know from lived experience, perhaps the greatest benefit of exercise – the one that gets us back day after day –  is the how good it makes us feel, within ourselves and about ourselves. Here’s to living healthier, happier, longer! See you again at Be Well soon. Navigate to more articles! PrevPreviousIssue #156 My heart rate jumped 12 bpm without moving an inch Be Well is the first-of-its- kind urban health, wellness and lifestyle club in Melbourne, Australia.  Informed by the science of longevity, Be Well nurtures the relationship you have with yourself and others, to optimise your lifestyle, and live your longest, best life.

I did an experiment the other day. I took my pulse sitting on a plane that was running late whilst scrolling through LinkedIn and YouTube.  It was revealing to say the least! In a 30 min period I went from 64bpm – 76bpm – without moving an inch. Between the global news cycle and the daily juggle of work and life, many of us are operating in a state of anxiety, overwhelm and overdrive. When you are constantly on, your body stays in a state of high alert that wears down your immunity, disrupts your sleep and plays havoc with your hormones. We’ve been told that health is about doing more – more steps, more tracking, more intensity. But sometimes the most practical thing you can do for your long term health isn’t pushing harder or pushing through, it’s bringing your nervous system back to baseline. To keep your staying power in your career and your life, you need deliberate ways to switch off and manage your nervous system regulation, moving from fight or flight into rest and digest. So although I may not be able to control my external environment (including constant delayed flights!), I can regulate and manage my internal one. The New Essentials We are practical people; we know you don’t have hours to spend on complicated rituals, so here’s three high impact nervous system resets for you at Be Well right now: Breath as medicine  Next weekend’s Art of Meditation course led by the Art of Living team (see more info below) Our yin yoga sessions are lead by highly experienced instructors who provide neuro-recovery techniques that physically signal to your brain that you are safe to relax, allowing for healing and recovery time. Here is one of Be Well’s fantastic instructors Geri sharing some Yin moves you can try at home. Yin Yoga Speaking of breath… We’ve started a 10-week Lung Health series on Instagram with Pat. Every Tuesday, he’ll share simple practices to keep your lungs healthy as we transition from summer. EP#1 is already out and linked below. EP#1 Lung Health Series Time out  Sometimes the best ‘supplement’ for your wellbeing is a 30 minute sauna session in a space where no one expects anything from you. Our (de)compression room – with or without face masks ;-), is now a phone-free space at Be Well. Real connection  In a digital world, nothing resets the system like a face-to-face conversation. We call Be Well your third space, a place to be around like-minded people without the pressure and demands of family, a team, a boardroom or a screen. Our regular Be Well Conversations and gatherings regularly bring our community and friends together to talk deeply, laugh loudly and connect meaningfully. The bottom line The most ‘optimised’ person in the room might not be the one with the most data points, but the person with the most regulated nervous system and the vitality and calm to enjoy the life you’re living right now. See you again at Be Well soon! Jan  PS: Don’t forget to invite your friends & join us at this year’s Be Well International Women’s Day Conversation & Restore event 3 – 5.30pm, 15 March. More info below  International Women’s Day Tickets:Members, book here.Non Members, book here. www.bewell.com.auLifelong health, made simple Navigate to more articles! PrevPreviousIssue #154 I was lying on my yoga mat this morning at Be Well Be Well is the first-of-its- kind urban health, wellness and lifestyle club in Melbourne, Australia.  Informed by the science of longevity, Be Well nurtures the relationship you have with yourself and others, to optimise your lifestyle, and live your longest, best life.

I was lying on my yoga mat in Geri’s class this morning at Be Well. After an hour of flow practice I was swept away by an intense peace and calm as waves of music fell over and around us. My African grandmother name is aptly Go-Go. I move fast, eat fast, think fast, act fast, do life fast… I packed a bag and left home (for the first time) when I was about 3 years old. So time spent lying, sitting, stretching, bending and balancing on a yoga mat is a highly unlikely environment for me but I have trained myself over many years that this is my downtime whenever I can get it. We also had another Tomorrow Party at Be Well last week. A Tomorrow Party is where we ‘time travel’ into our future self with lightness, encouragement and support from others in the room (no drugs are even involved or required! ;-).  It was quite incredible to hear the places people traveled to and the ideas and opportunities that evolved in a few short hours. But what really inspired me was overhearing conversations a few days later with Members talking enthusiastically about their experience with other Members they hardly know over a cup of tea in the Well.  All whilst I was doing Ming’s Pilates class. Yes, we founded Be Well to improve our fitness, health and wellbeing. We are very clear about wanting to extend our health-span and, bonus, lifespan. We can track, assess and measure our progress in this. But the benefits of Be Well go far beyond that which we can measure. The conditions for success in fitness, health and wellbeing are more nuanced than raw metrics.  I have often shared in this blog that social fitness and connection are the most powerful complement to our exercise program. I am not sure how to measure that restorative moment of overwhelming peace and calm on my yoga mat nor the impact of a meaningful and life changing Be Well Tomorrow Party conversation. What I do know is that these things create and fuel energy and life into my body, mind and soul in intangible but deeply embodied ways. I also know that the more time spent in my parasympathetic nervous system the less likely my body will be inflamed and the less inflammation the more resistant I am to disease. This, in turn, enables me to do more pilates, lift weights and be GoGo! So maybe I have answered my own question. Everything can be measured after all! Looking forward to  seeing you all again at Be Well soon! Navigate to more articles! PrevPreviousIssue #153: Your body is full of zombie cells (here’s how to remove them) Be Well is the first-of-its- kind urban health, wellness and lifestyle club in Melbourne, Australia.  Informed by the science of longevity, Be Well nurtures the relationship you have with yourself and others, to optimise your lifestyle, and live your longest, best life.

If you’ve been into Be Well lately, you’ve probably felt that familiar post workout glow. But what if I told you that in early 2026, the ‘glow’ isn’t just coming from a good class or training session – it’s coming from the very core of our DNA? We are living through a historic shift in medicine. For those of us over 45, the conversation has moved away from the idea of ‘growing old gracefully’ toward ‘growing young strategically.’ That aspiration is certainly true for me and is In the first quarter of 2026, three massive scientific breakthroughs are changing the game for longevity – closing the gap between our lifespan and health-span. Lastest breakthroughs in Ageing 1. The end of ‘zombie cells’? By the time we hit our late 40s, our bodies accumulate senescent cells. Scientists call these zombie cells because they refuse to die, instead lingering in our joints and tissues, pumping out inflammatory signals that make us feel stiff or slow. The 2026 updateIn February, clinical trials for Precision Senolytics hit a major milestone. We now have targeted therapies designed to sweep these zombie cells out of the body. Imagine a future where age-related joint pain isn’t managed with ibuprofen, but cured by clearing the cellular ‘rust’ that causes the inflammation in the first place?   2. Know your biological age We all have two birthdays: the one on our driver’s license (chronological) and the one written in our cells (biological). The 2026 updateEpigenetic Clocks have officially moved from elite research labs into mainstream clinical care. By analyzing chemical tags on your DNA, these tests can tell you if your 48-year-old heart is actually functioning like a 40 year old or a 60 year old. This breakthrough allows us to stop guessing and start measuring. If your biological age is higher than you’d like, 2026 science shows we can actually roll it back through specific high-intensity interval training and personalized nutrition. 3. Your Digital Twin has got your back Ever wonder exactly how that extra espresso or missed hour of sleep affects your long-term health? The 2026 updateAI-powered healthspan ‘Digital Twins’ are the breakout tech of the year. By syncing your wearable data with blood panels, AI creates a virtual version of you. Doctors are now using these twins to run what-if simulations. It can predict how your cardiovascular health will look in five years based on your current habits. It’s like having a crystal ball for your health, allowing you to make course corrections today to ensure a vibrant, active 70s, 80s and 90s. Moving from maintaining to optimising? We can have levels of health, wellbeing and vitaility that enables us to live our one, wild and precious lives to the full. Whether it’s clearing out cellular debris or using AI to map our future, the science of 2026 is giving us the tools to stay under the bar, on the bike and in the game for decades to come. The future of longevity isn’t a mystery anymore; it’s a metric. Ready to see how these breakthroughs can change your future? Chat with one of our expert Physios this week about how we can tailor your program to target these longevity markers. Looking forward to seeing you at Be Well again soon! Navigate to more articles! PrevPreviousIssue #152: My neighbour is doubled over. She’s only 70 Be Well is the first-of-its- kind urban health, wellness and lifestyle club in Melbourne, Australia.  Informed by the science of longevity, Be Well nurtures the relationship you have with yourself and others, to optimise your lifestyle, and live your longest, best life.

I see RW and KT, two neighbours in their 70s, walking every day. It must take a huge amount of physical and mental effort on their part. They both have osteoporosis and are so stooped that they walk with their eyes looking straight to the ground. Its pretty devastating. They could easily live another 10 or 15 years like this. To be honest, I’m personally terrified of such a future.  But they are not alone. In Australia, we are facing a bone health crisis. Over 6 million of us have poor bone health and, if you’re over 45, you’re officially in the crosshairs.  So here is the no-holds-barred truth about what’s happening to your frame and how to fix it before the cracks start showing. The Triple Threat: Osteo-What? Most people conflate or confuse these three, but they are very different beasts. Osteopenia –  Your bone density is lower than it should be. It doesn’t hurt, but the foundations are thinning. Osteoporosis – Your bones are now porous and fragile. A simple trip or even a heavy sneeze could cause a fracture. Osteoarthritis – This is an active disease process causing cartilage, or ‘shock absorbers’, to break down, leading to that bone-on-bone grinding and inflammation. ​All three conditions are on an upward trajectory in Australia In 2023, 6.2 million Australians aged 50 and older (67% of that age group) had poor bone health, in the form of osteoporosis and osteopenia. This was a 34% increase over the last decade, and is projected to reach 7.7 million by 2033.  Men are the fastest growing group aged 50 – 69 years. Around 2.1 million people (8.3%) were living with osteoarthritis in 2022,  a number expected to reach 3.1 million by 2040. Why Is this happening to Us? It’s not just bad luck. Australia’s prevalence is skyrocketing because: The Big FadePost-45, oestrogen and testosterone—the hormones that guard your bones—start to dip. Without them, your body breaks down bone faster than it builds it. The Comfort TrapWe sit too much. Your bones are smart; if you don’t put weight on them, they decide they don’t need to be dense, and they start to shed bone mass. The Gravity GapIf you aren’t lifting heavy things, your bones aren’t receiving the “stay strong” signal. Essentially, modern life is engineering the strength right out of us, unless we actively intervene and take action. The Be Well Battle Plan We can’t stop the clock, but we can absolutely refuse to crumble. If you want to keep your world big, your spine straight, and your passport stamped, you need to take action. It really is as simple as that.   1. Eat Like a Structural Engineer Your bones need raw materials. Calcium is Non-Negotiable: You need 1,300mg a day. That’s 3–4 serves of dairy, sardines, or fortified alternatives. Note: Get it from food, not pills. Supplements can spike your levels too fast and miss the mark; food delivers it exactly how your bones like it. Vitamin D is the Site Manager: You can eat all the calcium in the world, but without Vitamin D, it won’t get delivered to the bones. Get your levels checked; most Melburnians are deficient by July. 2. Lift Heavy Sh*t Walking is great for your heart, but it’s meh for your bones. To build density, you need Progressive Resistance Training. You need to lift, push, and pull weights that actually feel heavy. This creates the “micro-stress” that forces your bones to harden. 3. Respect the Inflammation If you have Osteoarthritis, stop powering through the pain with Ibuprofen. Lose that spare tyre: Every 1kg you lose takes 4kg of pressure off your knees. Join the Resistance Your skeleton is alive, adaptable, and capable of getting stronger at any age. Our HUR equipment is engineered for safe gains, as each exercise is isolated. But the next step, the gold standard, is to master compound movements using free weights. It is crucial to understand that strength is a skill. That’s exactly why we’ve launched our Bone Vitality Program. Our physios will teach you how to lift, tailoring the load and the technique to your specific frame. To ensure the Program is right for you, it begins with your Bone Vitality Assessment. See more information below and our website.  Bookings are open now for our small group Bone Strength classes. Tell everyone!  Tell your partner, friends, and colleagues. This is one health story that needs to be shared. Not later. Not next year. Now. Your body will thank you for it, and you will thank your body. See you at Be Well again soon.  Navigate to more articles! PrevPreviousIssue #151 I stopped asking ‘how’ and started asking ‘why Be Well is the first-of-its- kind urban health, wellness and lifestyle club in Melbourne, Australia.  Informed by the science of longevity, Be Well nurtures the relationship you have with yourself and others, to optimise your lifestyle, and live your longest, best life.

In my 20s, 30s and even 40s, health was often about the ‘How’ – how to run faster, how to look a certain way, how to grab some personal space or how to fit a workout into a chaotic schedule of motherhood, family and work.  But as I stepped into my 50s and 60s, the conversation shifted. Suddenly, it was not just about the how; it was about the ‘Why’. I see it every day at Be Well. The members who thrive have anchored their health to a purpose that goes deeper than a New Year’s resolution or a quick fix. Why your ‘Why’ matters for your health and longevity The window for radical life extension is still wide open in our 40s and 50s! According to Stanford Medicine (2026), we lose about 10% of muscle strength each decade after 50. Their latest research into gerozymes – enzymes that regulate muscle aging- suggests that while science is catching up, the best ‘medicine’ remains consistent, purposeful movement to protect your metabolic independence. Meta-analysis of 2 million people published by UNSW Sydney in 2025, demonstrated that managing five key health markers (blood pressure, cholesterol, BMI, smoking status, and blood sugar) by age 50 adds an average of 14.5 years of life for women and 11.8 years for men.  Precision, not pressure We are moving away from one-size-fits-all fitness. Now, it’s about intelligence over intensity. Why now? Because we finally have the tools to personalize health without the burnout. No more stressful biohacking, chasing complex metrics, high-tech tracking and self ‘surveillance’. The new field of Neurowellness shifts the goal from peak performance to listening to our bodies and nervous system regulation, rather than hitting data points alone. Purpose is a biological shield A landmark 2025 study from UC Davis found that individuals with a strong sense of purpose have a 28% lower risk of developing cognitive impairment and dementia. Purpose acts as a buffer, helping the brain stay resilient even against genetic risks. A study led by Dr. Aliza Wingo followed 13,000 adults over 15 years. They found that those with a high sense of purpose (their ‘Why’) had a 28% lower risk of developing cognitive impairment. Crucially, the research showed that purpose actually builds cognitive reserve, allowing the brain to remain resilient even in the presence of genetic markers for Alzheimer’s. Community is the new super nutrient UNSW Sydney also released another breakthrough study last year showing that strong social bonds slow aging at a cellular level. Loneliness isn’t just a feeling; in 2026, it’s recognised as a primary driver of biological aging and is as hard on the heart as smoking.  Choosing a place like Be Well in Hawthorn isn’t just about the equipment; it’s about having a restorative sanctuary, about being known and supported by a team, your neighbours and friends. Places like Be Well are no longer just gyms; they are hubs for nervous system safety. Being part of a genuine community provides the social super nutrient that a solo home workout simply cannot replicate. How to Find Your ‘Why’ If ‘getting fit’ feels too vague, try these strategies to narrow your focus 1. The ‘5 Whys’ technique Ask yourself a health goal, then ask ‘Why?’ five times to get to the root.  Goal: I want to improve my mobility.  * Why? To reduce back pain.  * Why? To stay active on weekends.  * Why? To go hiking with my kids.  * Why? To be the fun grandparent who isn’t stuck on the sidelines.  * The Real Why>: Legacy and connection. 2. Prioritise the micro Science shows that small, consistent movements, what researchers call ‘habit friction reduction’, are more effective than occasional hour long grinds. Find a ‘Why’ that makes a 10 minute walk at lunchtime feel like a treat, not a chore. In 2026, I have turned all my Friday meetings into phone calls so I can walk and talk. It all adds up! 3. Come to a Tomorrow Party, held regularly at Be Well, where you can explore your Why and Purpose in a supportive community (next one coming up on Thursday 19 February!) Your Next Step Whether it’s staying sharp for your career, being present for your family or simply feeling at home in your body again, there has never been a better time to start or just keep going.  Your ‘Why’ is the engine; we are your fuel.  See you again at Be Well soon! Navigate to more articles! PrevPreviousIssue #150  Beyond Willpower: How to stay motivated for life Be Well is the first-of-its- kind urban health, wellness and lifestyle club in Melbourne, Australia.  Informed by the science of longevity, Be Well nurtures the relationship you have with yourself and others, to optimise your lifestyle, and live your longest, best life.

The AO finals weekend heralds the last days of the summer holidays here in Melbourne. Last week I wrote about not sweating (pun intended!) physical losses will enjoying the holidays⸺your muscle memory is still going strong! The same goes with why you committed yourself to being healthy, strong and well in the first place. Despite the millions of self help books and podcasts on willpower and motivation, I have personally found that I only need to ask myself one simple question: Am I worth the care and attention I give to my health and wellbeing each day? My answer is a resounding “Yes!” Not only is my health and wellness an enduring gift to myself, it is the most significant gift I can give my children and grandchildren. The ideas below are ways to ensure we don’t fall off the inevitable cliff of motivation and stay on track. But finding your Why is the most motivational thing we can do. The 6-Week Cliff Did you know that 73% of people abandon their fitness goals before the 6-week mark? Behavioural data shows the ‘motivation cliff’ usually hits around day 42, when initial excitement fades and routines start to feel like chores. How to avoid falling off the cliff?  Its not about willpower. Rather, it’s about aligning your mind with your body. Reducing the friction between out intention and behaviours. About reaching the state of effortless action. When moving, working out, eating properly, sleeping well, nourishing our relationships⸺all the elements of Health&Wellbeing⸺flow easily and naturally. Exercise relieves stress Recent 2026 Gallup data reveals a powerful difference gender difference: women who move daily are 20% less likely to report high stress.   Hot Tip: On your busiest days, don’t see a Pilates workout, a yoga class, a 30 minute walk, as ‘time you can’t afford’. Moving is your most effective tool for achieving mental clarity and emotional resilience. Engaged minds are growing minds A 2024 report in the German Journal of Sports Medicine found that motor-cognitive challenges are superior for brain engagement compared to repetitive tasks.   Hot Tip: Do a yoga or Pilates class. Stand on one leg while washing the dishes. Add skips to your walk. Identity is Power As James Clear documents in Atomic Habits, the deepest change is identity-based.  When you adopt an identity, habits that support that identity  follow naturally.   Hot Tip: Own your ‘health identity’ itle! Tell friends, “I’m an  athlete”. ‘I am a health-fanatic.’  “I’m a Be Weller”. Tracking for accountablity A 2025 University of Bath study found that combining step tracking with a daily mindfulness program led to an average increase of 373 minutes of activity per week. Connect external data to internal rewards.  Hot Tip: Celebrate micro-victories. When you’ve completed a class, a walk, completed 5 ‘sit-on-ground; stand-ups’, declare victory before moving on. Feel the endorphin-hit. Are you ready to beat the 6-Week Cliff? What is one small identity shift you’ll make this week?  Here’s to staying younger, healthier and happier! Navigate to more articles! PrevPreviousGood news: Your hard work hasn’t evaporated Be Well is the first-of-its- kind urban health, wellness and lifestyle club in Melbourne, Australia.  Informed by the science of longevity, Be Well nurtures the relationship you have with yourself and others, to optimise your lifestyle, and live your longest, best life.

Whenever I come back home from a holiday I tend to procrastinate about returning to my old routines. I guess I just want to hold onto that feeling of freedom and relaxation as long as possible. I’m sure I’m  not alone in this! As you start back on your daily and weekly routines,  you might find yourself asking questions like:How much of my hard-won gains leading up to the holidays have a lost?Wonderful to hang out with family & friends, eating and drinking, chilling with a book, watching the tennis, but how far have I gone backwards? The short answer? A lot less than your guilty conscience might be telling you. I’ve done a bit of digging into the science of “detraining,” and the news is surprisingly good. While you might feel a bit sluggish during that first session back, that sensation is mostly just the ‘rust’ of inactivity. Raw strength and muscle mass are resilient, sticking around for anywhere from two to four weeks without any stimulation. Your cardio endurance (or “engine”) will likely have dipped —our blood volume drops quicker than our strength—but it bounces back remarkably fast once you start moving again. So, if you feeling a bit flat and rusty, your body just needs to wake up. Your hard work hasn’t evaporated. In fact, that break might have been exactly what your body needed to fully recover and recharge. So whether you’ve been at the beach, visiting family or were just taking a break from your daily self-care routine, here are four proven ‘Wake Up’ strategies that I personally use to get back on track. 1. Send Yourself an Identity Signal In habit research, missing one day is just a blip. Missing a few in a row? That is the start of a new habit of not exercising.Your goal right now isn’t a personal best; it’s to remind your mind who you are: “I am a Be Weller. I am a person who takes good care of my miraculous body.“  The Fix. Simply lower the bar. Aim for a 10-minute stretch, a brisk walk rather than a stroll, perhaps just 5 squats. Moving your body re-installs that ‘athlete’ identity while being gentle enough to wake up your system without causing injury. 2. Aim for Effortless Action The biggest barrier to returning isn’t your muscles; it is the mental weight of facing a grueling 50-minute session. The very idea creates resistance and friction. The mind starts doing what it does best—trying to negotiate: ‘Not today,’ ‘Too soon,’ ‘I’m not ready.’  The Fix: Adopt the 5-minute rule. Commit to just 5 minutes of movement. This forces you to put on your gear and get out the door, perhaps just for a walk, or better yet, to show up at your Be Well class. Give yourself full, guilt-free permission to stop after 5 minutes. You did what you committed to! Most likely, once you break through that initial resistance, effortless action kicks in and you’ll naturally keep going, this time for 10 minutes, and so on until it is time to stop gracefully. This soft start reinforces your self-care identity and restores its habits, while you blow off the holiday rust. 3. Hydrate to Reactivate Coming back from holiday usually involves a mountain of laundry, organising the year and a full inbox creating decision fatigue.  The Fix: For your first three days back, eliminate all choices. Lay your gym clothes out the night before. Pre-book your Be Well classes. Don’t decide to train; just follow the plan you set when you were thinking clearly.   4. Reconnect Recent data on accountability shows that returning to a social environment is 3x times more effective than training alone after a break.  The Fix: Book your first week of sessions before you even get home. Text your Be Well buddies and encourage them to join you. That shared social commitment overrides post-holiday lethargy every time. It is much harder to hit the snooze button when you know a friend is waiting! Finally, aim for Presence, not Performance In your first week back, your metric for success is showing up. Don’t worry about your weights, your pace or your heart rate. Re-establish the rhythm first; the results will follow. See you all at Be Well again soon for a fabulous 2026! Navigate to more articles! PrevPreviousIssue No.148: The 1-hour breakfast trick that burns visceral fat Be Well is the first-of-its- kind urban health, wellness and lifestyle club in Melbourne, Australia.  Informed by the science of longevity, Be Well nurtures the relationship you have with yourself and others, to optimise your lifestyle, and live your longest, best life.